We have found that team teaching a class together has been a means of testing our matrimonial linkage in a positive way. Our styles are almost diametrically opposed but we have managed to bring our differences into balance. My style is more pedantic based on facts & figures while Sister Phillips is more dynamic with object lessons, personal stories, and anecdotal metaphors. For many years we have enjoyed teaching together in many church teaching assignments. When we decided to serve a mission we envisioned many spiritually uplifting teaching moments with our combined approach. Although we have an added challenge of being in a non-proselyting mission, we have found ways to teach without necessarily preaching.

One of these teaching opportunities is lecturing at the University of Jordan’s public health class. The course has formed around the way life-styles are associated with major public health problems. This week the subject was “smoking.” We had a very lively discussion about the bad results and ensuing costs of a very dirty habit. 48% of Jordan smokes with the largest being in the male gender but studies show smoking among females is on the rise. The costs of smoking, the effects of second hand smoke, advertising and laws governing where one can smoke in Jordan were all discussed. The students freely admitted that even if the laws prohibit smoking in all public buildings, no one feels an obligation to observe the law, including those who created the law and those who are to enforce it. We finished off with some good information on how to quit. We think we may have encouraged those students who do smoke to reconsider their life style and its impact on their families. What a great opportunity to teach the principles of the Word of Wisdom.

After our grandsons visited Jordan, our eldest granddaughter, Sierra, also paid us a visit. We were thrilled to have her sweet and happy spirit in our home. The Jordanians loved her as well, of course. She helped to teach a primary class while playing her ukulele, we attended a fun Jordanian cooking class, and we made another trek down to Petra. Very busy times indeed!

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Jordanian cooking class

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At the citadel

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Teaching primary

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Outside Petra

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Outside Petra

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Outside Petra

We have had an extremely busy summer. July started off with our first family visit! Spencer’s three oldest boys came to work as counselors for the summer camp here. J, Sam and Knox were very helpful and the kids loved hosting them. Spencer and Kristin joined the boys for the last week of their trip, after spending a few days in Israel. They also went to Paris on the way home. We were so happy to have our first visitors!

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J welcoming the campers

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J, Sam and Knox as camp counselors

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Grandpa Tutu playing frisbee

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Knox working on clay models with the campers

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Sam broke his wrist early in the trip

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Dinner out with the boys

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Spencer and Kristin joined us for the last few days of the trip. We went to Petra together.

Ramadan started at the beginning of June. This is a month where strict fasting is observed from sunrise to sunset. For Muslims, this is a time of deep spiritual discipline where they reaffirm their relationship with Allah, and through which their sins will be burned away. Along with serving as a means for deep contemplation, fasting represents one of the five pillars of Islam, a set of practices every Muslim must follow. For the entire month, observers of the fast cannot eat, drink or smoke from daybreak to dusk. There is a big meal at the end of each day, and at the end of the month of fasting there is a big festival called “Eid al Fitr.”

Experiencing Ramadan in real life together is a humbling experience. Stores and restaurants are closed during the day, and traffic is considerably decreased. The night becomes people’s day and the day becomes the night. Like our Muslim brothers and sisters, we have made this a time to renew our relationship with family and our Heavenly Father and recommit our dedication to His service.

The Piano Guys

President Leishman invited us to his home, where we enjoyed dinner with his family. Following dinner, we enjoyed a special night of entertainment from the Piano Guys, who were in town after filming a new video in Petra.

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Dinner with President Leishman

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Piano Guys Performance

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A lot of the families have returned home to the US, so Sandi graciously fed the “Branch Bachelors” a much appreciated home cooked meal earlier this month.

We had some important meetings with Nabil Haddad and Dadel Mohammed Humoud, Secretary General of the National Council for Family Affairs (NCFA). We discussed interfaith harmony, karma and focusing on the family to be the focus of an upcoming conference. They will be presenting the concepts we discussed to the Queen, and they feel she will be excited to lend her patronage to a conference on family dignity. We were invited to take a tour of the new offices at NCFA, and we were very impressed. One of their five floors includes a nursery for the children of the staff, complete with mini sinks! Overall, it was a positive meeting and there is a great deal of excitement between NCFA and LDSC to develop an outstanding international conference on the Dignity of the Family.

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Mini Sinks in the nursery at the NCFA

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Phillips, Sec. Gen. Homoud of NCFA and Father Haddad

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Sidewalk meeting with NCFA Sec. Gen (1), two Council Members, Father Haddad, Sister & Elder Phillips

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Cleaning crew for a service project with Father Kildani

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Cleaning the inside of a church with hoses and squeegees

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Royal Hospital wheelchair ceremony with Phillips, Dr. Khatatarh and Zaid on the far right

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Sis Phillips with new baby Joury

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Sis Phillips accepting a flower from a student at Kildani’s summer school.

Sister Phillips received a personal invitation to accompany the director of Al Hussein Society (AHS) and attend a garden party at the home of Princess Majda Radd, the Royal Patron of AHS and cousin of the King. This was a “girls only” party so Elder Phillips was invited NOT to come. It was an elegant affair in true royal fashion. Sister Phillips said the real Princess party fulfilled all of her little girl dreams.

The Schneller School water treatment and delivery system was finally celebrated after nearly a year of effort. This unique project allows water to be filtered but then piped into 8 individual dormitories where up to 20 orphan children live with a dorm parent. The ceremony was attended by many graduates of the school who are now prominent business leaders in the area. The photos below are of us at the ceremony, and of us trying the new filtered water! Delicious!

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This is the old pumping station they were using

 

Relationship with the Lord: Elder Dale Renlund, began his Saturday morning conference address (Ensign May 2016, p39) by quoting our very own Elder Wilford Andersen of the Seventy. “The greater the distance between the giver and the receiver, the more the receiver develops a sense of entitlement.” Elder Renlund went on to apply the principle of “distance between giver and receiver” to spiritual things, by comparing Laman and Lemuel to Nephi in the Book of Mormon—a profound example of the importance of our need to individually draw closer to our Father in Heaven and his Son Jesus Christ so that we may become ever more grateful for the blessings received rather than acquire a sense of entitlement for what we think we deserve.

 

There is also an application of this same principle to the humanitarian work we are doing in Jordan. One of our local partners, Father Hana Kildani of the Latin Catholic Church, said to us, “You need to attach a face to the gifts you give from LDSC in order for it to be fully appreciated.”

 

When humanitarian agents for our Church are personally involved in fitting an individual to a wheelchair, bringing needed food or clothing to a home, interacting with children in their school classrooms, teaching an individual how to speak better English or doing similar acts of relief and kindness, the recipients see our faces and know of our sincerity and love for them. Acts of charity need not be not limited by culture, religion or language differences, but are felt in the heart.

 

A challenge arises when one considers the immensity of the need and the number of people suffering—even for want of basic necessities. It is not feasible for two humanitarian couples in Jordan to meet all the needs of this country. It is not possible for LDS Charities collectively to meet all the needs of any country. It is not even possible for all humanitarian needs to be met with combined efforts of all agencies like the United Nations, the Red Cross and USAID. And unfortunately, the larger the agency (the giver) the more distant they become from the receiver.

 

What is to be done? First, we cannot despair for we are involved in the Lord’s work and He will see that it is done in His own way and time. Our responsibility in this equation, while seeking the direction of the spirit, is to learn how to be most effective and efficient in the work we do. Building relationships of trust with partners of integrity, especially at the grass roots level, expands our ability to put our LDSC face and the face of our partner on the gift given. We need to be focused on providing a gift that will not only relieve suffering but will help lift and build the receiver to some sustainable level.

 

At times, a “handout” is the difference between life and death. This fact cannot be ignored. But often, a helping hand along with personal building of hope in a person’s life is the difference between enthusiasm and despair. A handout from afar (donation to a large agency) is easy and needed. A helping hand when standing beside a needy soul brings an emotional connection and spiritual fulfillment confirmed by the whisperings of the Spirit.

 

You don’t need to be in the refugee camps of the world to fine a needy soul. They are all around us. We just need to ask for the Lord’s guidance to use our time and resources most wisely.

 

Relationship with your companion: Being with one companion 24/7 allows us to be anxiously engaged in the same worthy causes at the same time—similar to the years when we were raising our eight children. A mission has the added dimension of an expanded spiritual component as we turn our focus from inward family to outward serving the Lord by serving others. We know the adversary works to thwart our progress, disrupt our harmony, or dislodge us from the presence of the Holy Ghost in, “…divers ways and means, even so many that I cannot number them (Mos. 4:29)” Yet, we also know the Lord sustains, directs and blesses us so long as we seek His will and use all our full efforts. What a wonderful way to grow a Relationship of Trust with an Eternal companion.

 

Relationship with the District/Branch: We have been working closely with President Penrod in an effort to bring the Pathway Program to Jordan. As his Exec. Sec. he tasked me to gather information. After contacting Gene Hayes at the International Desk at BYU-Idaho, we learned about the process for applying and what it takes to become accepted. He informed us that we were only days away from the meeting where decisions for January 2017 partners were being considered. President Penrod contacted Elder Price who alerted Elder Lawrence, and we got on the schedule for the meeting. Apparently there is a lengthy review process but at least Jordan District is in the queue. Thank You Elder Lawrence.

 

King’s Academy is the country’s top college prep school and Whitney Anderson from our Branch graduated and will continue to BYU in the fall. Because she has been attending King’s for the last four years, separated from her family, we along with many other members of the branch took a special interest in her.

 

She invited us to her graduation where Crown Prince Abdullah III was the guest of honor. A well-attended event, typical of graduations held in the US, Whitney’s parents made the trip to honor her and attend church on Friday.

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Whitney Anderson, Kings Academy Graduate

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Crown Prince Abdullah III after King’s Academy graduation, tosses a friendly smile our way as he walks by with his entourage.

Relationship with Partners (Individuals/ Groups):

 

Community: 26 May: We made a point to meet with Annie at Al-Hussein Society to recap with her the refresher course taught to her team at their facility, but in her absence. She shared with us some of the insights of her trip to Lebanon, more information on her USAID grant and her continuing enthusiasm for developing a more strategic relationship with LDSC and managing the wheelchair distribution for all of Jordan through AHS.

 

 

Education: May 24 we visited the American University of Madaba (AUM), the university that Elder Brent Strong worked with so closely while in Jordan. We were scheduled to meet with President Numayr, former Dean of the College of Engineer and fond admirer of the Strongs. As the president was briefly detained we were hosted by Dr. Jamil N Samawi, Presidental Assistant for Legal and Accreditation affairs. His English was very good and we had some time to discuss the accreditation process at AUM which has advanced to include the Northeastern Association of Schools and Colleges. Apparently they have submitted a proposal for their preparatory review and if accepted they would be put on a schedule for a formal site visit most likely in the fall. This is a very important step for them and of course anxiety levels are very high.

 

President and Professor Karim Numayr joined us. He also spoke good English and with very little prompting he gave us a thumbnail history of the school with special appreciation for the work done by the Strongs. President Numayr assumed the office of president in December 2015. We were subsequently joined by Dr. Abdalla Alqudah, Presidential assistant for finance and technology centers. He was unable to sit due to spasms in his back but with some gentle massage he showed some remarkable improvement. Finally, Dr. Khalid Matalka, Dean of Health Sciences also joined in the discussion in the President’s office.

 

They all had a copy of my CV and when we told them we were in Jordan in a capacity similar to the Strongs and were interested in learning how we might be of service to them, the President, with a tight voice and tear in his eye, complimented his friends from LDSC on their conviction and willingness to offer such assistance. He said, “There are few people in the world today willing to do what you are doing. It gives me hope.”

 

So typical of a new president, Dr. Numayr proceeded to give us a litany of needs for AUM of which the following is a brief summary:

 

Fund-raising and marketing to build student enrollment and expand programs

Help with the continuing accreditation process

Expand the College of Health Sciences to establish a pre-health curriculum

Expand the Leadership program being developed by Brent Strong and faculty member Daniel Blomberg – (LDS branch church member)

Start an MBA program

Obtain 501(c)(3) status with the IRS for contribution purposes

Expand student activities and extra-curricular activities.

Build a university village and expand the campus

Local community partners: agriculture issues, tourism and small & medium business programs with refugees

Sponsor conferences that would bring in notable educators around the country and bring recognition to the school. (Perhaps a Family Conference?)

 

The University is a non-profit, private organization now under the management of the Vatican due to some financial and political difficulties in the former administration of the school last year. The problems have been resolved and the University is now back on track.

 

AUM asked us to review their programs and give them a proposal about where we feel we could offer the most help and how much time we would be able to dedicate to their needs. They said they would provide an office, computers, parking and other university privileges offered to faculty in exchange for the service we could provide. Essentially the door is open to be anything from a consultant to the president on accreditation and the management of the university (due to my past experience) to a full-time or part-time teaching position, to working with the various Deans and College where our education and experience can be most beneficial. They also were keen on Sister Phillips’ academic background and would like to capitalize on her successful business experience in their entrepreneur program and university marketing needs. There are so many areas of need, we must determine where can provide the most sustainable good with the time we have.

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President Numayr (center left), AUM Deans, and the Phillips

Temporal Relationships

 

Relationship with the NA/ME Desk: The work of the Wheelchair Training program continues into this week’s report.

 

20 May: With Friday being the Sabbath, we did no training beyond informal chats and ad hoc discussions. After Sunday School & Primary lessons were taught and guests fed, it was decided to visit the site of the baptism of Jesus near the Dead Sea in the River Jordan. This is the “supposed” site where John the Baptist performed this ordinance. It is one location where the borders of Israel and Jordan are separated by a narrow tributary of the Jordan river no wider than 30 ft. On both sides are visitor sites and approaches where people can actually enter the river. In spite of questionable authenticity, it is a humbling experience to walk in the general area where such a significant event took place. The ambiance is sacred and opportunity to meditate upon this sacred event is humbling. A well spent Sabbath event.

 

On our return trip to Amman, we drove over Mt. Nebo and visited St. George’s church with the rare preserved mosaic map of the Middle East laid in the floor, dating back to the middle of the 6th century AD.

Baptismal Site of Jesus–LDSC team–6th Century Mosaic in the floor of church

21 May: On Saturday, Scott Ward, P.T. went with missionaries Bob and Rhonda Homer to explore Jerash while the rest of the team prepared for a meeting with Annie at Al Hussein Society (AHS). The purpose of the meeting was to explore in depth Annie’s response to her visit with Sharon Eubank in April and subsequent e-mail exchanges that followed. This narrative is from our perspective.

 

I know you think you understand what you thought I said but I’m not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.   Unknown

 

Further e-mail exchanges revolved around salary support for Annie’s PT and funding for AHS to conduct a country-wide survey to determine the needs of the disabled in Jordan. Responses from Eric to her requests were negative to salary support or funding a survey.

 

Eric Wunderlich, some comments worth repeating:

 

A plan should detail other organizations that would be involved, what different roles and responsibilities each organization might have, a funding plan including what each organization in the network will be responsible for, how training will happen, how will in-country logistics be handled, how quality of service will be verified, ideas for how this can move toward local sustainability, etc.…I have no problem with LDSC no longer providing training if the plan ensures that there will be qualified trainers in Jordan and that anyone providing a wheelchair has been properly trained. If Al Hussein or another local organization were to provide the training, I feel that LDSC’s contribution towards training would be minimal (for example, donation of some training materials).

 

I quote Eric’s remarks as they exemplify what is needed in Jordan be it through AHS or some other organization. If LDSC’s intent is to move from the current unsustainable model of perpetual wheelchair distribution, an expectation or model has been set for LDSC or some other partner organization to follow. In what direction should we now be going, i.e., continuing relationships with current partners or planning for the establishment of an in-country major partner?

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Scott Ward training Jawadat, Al Hussein Society PT with Max Abeda translating

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AHS Training participants

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Princess Majda (center front) with LDSC Training Team

23 May: Today’s event was the Introductory/Refresher course with the Jordanian Royal Medical Service at the King Abdullah Hospital. Formerly, the PT department of the hospital was in charge of wheelchair distribution but it has recently been reassigned to the Occupational Therapy Department under the direction of Sa’ed Smadi.

 

Zaid Hayajneh, retired General from the JRMS- PT department, joined the LDSC Training Team. He was an obvious welcomed guest and highly respected as an accomplished PT. The other LDSC trainers were duly impressed with his knowledge about wheelchairs as well as his ability to teach. He is a potential key link to the LDSC Wheelchair program as an in-country trainer or more, as his talents, abilities and connections are appropriately appreciated and properly utilized.

 

Sixteen enthusiastic participants were thoroughly engaged during the training. We capped the day off with five patients being evaluated, measured, properly fitted and educated on the care and use of the wheelchair they received.

 

The venue at JRMS was conducive to training needs and we were fed lunch in the officer’s mess hall at our own private table. While most of the participants had a working knowledge of English, Max, our translator, was invaluable to our English speaking trainers both when they were teaching and when Zaid was teaching in Arabic. Listening to the sidebar conversations, Max learned of a challenge faced at JRMS regarding the method of how wheelchairs are distributed. Essentially, once a patient is evaluated and measured he/she is sent to a central warehouse where wheelchairs for several hospitals are stored. The recipient arrives with a prescription and the warehouse stock person retrieves a chair and gives it to the participant. Often the chair is still in its shipping box unassembled. Thus, no patient final fitting or use instructions were given.

 

This problem was discussed with the Director of the Hospital and the Director of Rehabilitation Services in a post-training meeting. It was agreed that a method would be worked out where the participant would be properly assessed and measured and then fitted to a fully assembled chair with follow-up instructions by a trained OT. It was also agreed that some follow-up evaluations of wheelchair recipients would take place on a proper consent basis.

 

There was discussion regarding to whom JRMS actually distributes wheelchairs. The chairs are given to any military veterans and their families members who are mobility challenged and have assistive e device needs. This is somewhat contrary to LDSC protocols in that wheelchairs in the past have been provided for those who cannot afford to purchase them. Military personnel are not wealthy but most can afford to purchase a wheelchair. It was determined that the relationship building with the JRMS could justify the granting of wheelchairs to their organization even though it was not a poverty-driven situation. The Technical Specialists from LDSC will work out arrangements for future distribution of wheelchairs to JRMS.

 

The closing ceremony included a special recognition award to Kay and Kelvyn Cullimore for their many years of service to LDSC and the wheelchair program in Jordan.

 

Something to Consider:

Using Zaid as the LDSC in-country trainer and utilizing the facilities available to him at the Royal Hospital where he works, we establish an on-going training program for class sizes of 8-10 to be conducted on a monthly basis over a three-day weekend schedule. This training program would be made available to any organization or persons involved in wheelchair distributions. The course could vary from being an introductory course to a full training course. With the political contacts we have already established and with the backing of a new modern Royal Hospital, there is a high probability we could gain the endorsement of the Secretary General of the Higher Council for Affairs of the Disabled and begin to make the course a “Standard” for the entire country.

 

Periodic oversight visits from the Canovas would give assurance as to the quality of this program, and the local humanitarian couple could provide any needed support service. With this program intact and on-going, the need for large training sessions held in back-to-back sequence with a heavy expense borne by LDSC for transportation, lodging, and all the logistics currently entailed as in the recent projects, would be negated. Yet, LDSC would remain visible as the prime supporter of the program, LDSC standards would be maintained and with a program like this in place, additional in-country trainers could be developed to assist Zaid as well as watch over and conduct follow-up evaluations.

24 Mar: The LDSC Wheelchair Training Team departed at various times on the 24th with Scott Ward flying back to SLC and the rest of the team going onto Lebanon for further work in Beirut. Their departure represented the end of an intense but very fulfilling experience so we can only say our goodbyes were with mixed emotions. We thoroughly enjoyed the privilege of hosting such wonderful people, learning more about the wheelchair training program and having a sense of satisfaction for accomplishing the mission.

Elder Rasband’s opening remarks at the beginning of the Saturday afternoon session of April 2016 General Conference (Ensign, May 2016, 46-7) addressed a concern dear to our hearts. Since our mission to Jordan began, even as we were being trained before our departure, we asked many questions. Upon our arrival we asked many more questions. As we are maturing in our service we continue to search for answers to questions. Wondering if our questioning nature caused concern, Elder Rasband’s words brought comfort.

 

“The Restoration of the gospel began with a youth, Joseph Smith, asking a question. Many of the Savior’s teaching in His ministry began with a question…We need to help each other find Heavenly Father’s answers through the guidance of the Spirit.”

 

The perennial challenge, “…finding answers through the guidance of the Spirit.” What we sometimes neglect is the, “…need to help each other find Heavenly Father’s answers…” One great aid in “helping each other,” comes in D &C 1:38 “What I the Lord have spoken, I have spoken, …whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same.”

 

Critical thinking leads to questioning. The responsibility of the critical thinker is to formulate questions that stimulate introspection, create new perspectives and open the mind to rational thought—without becoming critical. The Savior did not criticize the lawyer who challenged him on what should be done to obtain eternal life. He taught him the parable of the good Samaritan, “And who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29) and ended the parable with this question, “Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbor unto him that fell among the thieves?” (Luke 10:36).

 

We are eternally grateful for those with whom we work in our humanitarian service, both those in the Church and those of other faiths and walks of life, who work so hard and dedicate so much time and resources to “make life better for others.” Much of what they do and what we strive to assist them in doing is find a better way of doing what we do, or do something different, something we haven’t already done.”

 

In building our relationship of trust with the Lord, we will continue to follow the counsel of the Lord. We will also listen to others with whom we work to hear their views, absorb their thoughts and feelings and prayerfully consider their ways of thinking. Finally, we will continue to “ask questions,” not to be critical but to expand our vision of, “not what is” but of, “what could be.”

WE201600040: Wheelchair Training Major Initiative

 

14 May: With the Cullimores snuggled in at the Center, it was decided to give the Canovas and Scott Ward a night in the Le Royal Hotel after their long flight to Amman. We had arranged a pick-up for them that would take them directly to the hotel. The only glitch was some of their luggage failed to arrive with them. This was a problem because we were driving south to Aqaba the next day. They finally retrieved their bags in Aqaba after two days of patience and valiant effort.

 

15 May: The Center Van served to transport all of us to the Al Hussein Society (AHS) facility for their pre-training meeting at 9:00 am. Annie and her team were ready to receive us and after cordial introductions she gave us an overview of her vision for the future of AHS and a regional educational and training center for the inclusion of the less abled into society. After Annie’s presentation, Kelvyn began to walk us all through his pre-training checklist to make sure all was in order. Annie has a good team around her and there were few questions that needed to be addressed.

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Pre-training meeting at AHS with Annie’s team, Cullimores, Canovas and Phillips

Following the meeting with AHS, the LDSC team traveled to the Jordanian Royal Medical Service King Abdullah Hospital for their pre-training meeting. Things were a little less organized at JRMS in that there has been a transfer of wheelchair responsibility from the PT department to the OT department. Sa’ed Smadi, director of the OT program has become our new contact person. He has an okay command of the English language and is very anxious to make the program run smoothly. We learned at this meeting that what was designated to be a refresher course would have about half the participants as new attendees. This required some modification in the plans for instructions but our skilled team of trainers made it work. We needed to work out details for arriving early enough to do the proper set up and have access to their training facility.

 

After our pre-training meetings we returned to the Center to prepare for the four-hour drive to Aqaba. We rented a second van to have enough seats to carry the team plus additional training materials and luggage. We would have used the Homer’s and their van but they were tied up with a visit from Robert Hoakinson from the Desk and were not available to assist in this training experience.

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Pre-training meeting with JRMS, Sa’ed Smadi center at head of the table. LDSC team around the table.

We put the Canovas, Scott Ward, Zaid Hayajneh, and Max (our interpreter) in one van so they could have a planning session together, while the Phillips and Cullimores traveled with the extra supplies and luggage in the Center Van. Supplies included two large flip charts, 25 tool bags full of tools for assembly of wheelchairs, 25 tote bags full of stationery supplies, 18 bicycle pumps, logo aprons, posters and miscellaneous other materials required for the training experience. The GUVS truck brought down seven fitting tables with a set of foot blocks for each table, a white board, and upwards to 30 wheelchairs still in their shipping boxes.

 

The drive was uneventful other than the hired driver went too fast to make up for smoking and prayer stops. We made sure we had a different driver on the return trip. The scenery was spectacular, including the Red Sea. For those of us seeing Aqaba for the first time it was quite a treat. We arrived in time to check into our Jordanian four-star hotel and have a light dinner before retiring for the evening.

 

We needed a good night’s rest in anticipation of a full day of assembly of chairs and beginning sessions of the training. Our sleep was interrupted at 4:30am by a 5.1 earthquake centered about 35 miles south of Aqaba and about six miles deep under the Red Sea. The rolling type of quake woke us all up but fortunately the building remained intact. We all agreed that being lodged on the top (7th) floor was a blessing if the building had collapsed on itself. A few minor aftershocks and all was calm, though hot. This was the first moderate quake there since 1947, but for those of us who have lived in California it was not very spectacular.

 

16 May: We had learned in our pre-training meeting with GUVS last Thursday that they had told their people who were to attend the class to arrive late Monday afternoon. We told them at the meeting that their people needed to arrive earlier so as to participate in assembling wheelchairs, as they would all need to know how to do this when they received the chairs. We learned on Monday morning that while few could arrive earlier as prior transportation schedules could not be changed, it didn’t really matter as the venue reserved for our training was holding another event and would not be available for our use until after 2:00 pm. Those who were in town met at Burger King for lunch – a Cullimore favorite.

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The LDSC team at Burger King l-r S. Phillips, K and K Cullimore, S Ward, P & A Canova

Our adaptable team went into “Plan B” mode and prepared to start the assembly instruction at 2:00 pm. We had a good showing of participants at that time and they were able to observe Paul Canova go through the challenges of assembling the Rough Rider chair. There was no time to assemble the standard chair so while the Rough Rider demonstration was taking place in the training room, the Phillips and the Cullimores assembled the standard chairs needed for the training session in the hallway. (Plan B)

 

The weather in Aqaba reached 113 degrees and the air-conditioners at the training venue were over-taxed and went into a failure mode. It would be impossible to hold the training in an un-air-conditioned facility but one of the attendees from Our Lady of Peace (OLOP) in Aqaba offered us his facility as an alternative site at no cost.

 

The GUVS team agreed to move all the equipment to the new venue in time for us to start the next morning. The Our Lady of Peace was clean and air conditioned but was even smaller than the room we initially considered as inadequate at the Royal Hospital in Amman. With a few adjustments, “Plan C” was put into effect for training. The LDSC team had a nice dinner and an unshakable night’s rest.

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Some of the GUVS Trainees

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Wheelchair assembly training in process

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LDSC PT Trainers l-r Zaid Hayajneh, Alisa Canova & Scott Ward

17 May: Tuesday was the first full-day of training. The GUVS team had everything moved into the new facility. The LDSC team, after enjoying the usual hearty breakfast provided by our Jordanian four-star hotel, headed out to Our Lady of Peace early to make sure set up was in order and all was in readiness. Minor modifications of arrangements were necessary to accommodate for the large group of 18 participants in a smaller room.

 

Shatha from GUVS, Rami from OLOP, Max and Sister Phillips from LDSC under the watchful eye of Kay and Kelvyn Cullimore worked on food arrangements for the day, plans for the opening ceremony with GUVS Board of Directors, and other miscellaneous needs.

 

The trainees arrived at their appointed time of 8:30am and the training began. It was obvious we had a talented team of trainers as they took control of the class, outlined the action plans for the day and eased this group into a thorough understanding of wheelchair and patient assessment. It was very helpful to have Zaid instruct them in their own language. According to Alisa and Scott, Zaid was well-prepared and an excellent teacher.

 

The GUVS Board of Directors arrived a little after 9:00 am for the opening ceremony. Including their President, there were nine men in attendance. We quickly rearranged the room in to more of a classroom style and began the ceremony. Elder Phillips conducted the ceremony on behalf of LDSC. After proper greetings, introductions and a brief explanation of the program, time was granted to the GUVS President to say a few words. With the aid of translation, he was most complementary to LDSC for our contribution of wheelchairs and the training provided for the GUVS team. With accolades over, the GUVS BoD departed and were not seen again until the closing ceremony two-days later.

 

The remainder of the day went quite smoothly. The temperature softened a little and the air-conditioners worked. The participants were enthusiastic and anxious to learn, and the trainers worked well together as a team. It was a good day and the LDSC team ended the day with another group meal with casual conversation reviewing the events of the day.

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Alisa teaching with Max translating while Statha takes pictures.

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Ever vigilant, Kelvyn is in observation mode, applying his nine years of experience to assure all goes well.

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Max interpreting for GUVS President (with cell phone ever ready in left hand) while Elder Phillips looks on.

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Zaid explaining some cultural sensitivities to Alisa with Maysoon as the patient. Maysoon was a little embarrassed.

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Trainees in their wheelchairs observed by Paul Canova

18 May: The second full day of training was intense and exciting. The course expanded from theory to practical application with the trainees putting their training and skills into action—such as learning how to handle a wheelchair, how to access a ramp going both up and down, how to negotiate stairs or curbs with assistance of course, how to propel a chair through a soft terrain, how to negotiate tight doorways and how to transfer people to and from the wheelchair without causing injury to the person or to the helper. None of the trainees were actual wheelchair users so they learned to appreciate what wheelchair users face and how to handle a wheelchair properly in difficult situations—something the trainees will need to educate the recipients of wheelchairs on in the future.

 

It was a long day and all were exhausted but excited and ready for the next morning when they would begin the actual process of fitting a client to a chair. We ended the day by preparing the two rooms to receive clients in the morning. The recipients were to be divided by gender as were the examiners, out of respect to local customs.

 

The team took a brief detour on the way back to the hotel to dip their tired feet into the Red Sea. After a relaxing and delicious fish dinner, all retired for a restful night’s sleep.

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Trainees learning to take a wheelchair over a curb.

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Scott Ward demonstrating soft terrain management to a trainee.

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Scott Ward standing in the Red Sea

19 May: This was the big day – 30 people were scheduled to come to OLOP to be evaluated, measured and fitted for a wheelchair. The LDSC team was assigned as follows: Elder Phillips to receive the people as they arrived and direct them into the center, Sister Phillips to get them checked in with assistance from OLOP people, assign them a number and place them in the waiting area in an orderly fashion. Alisa was supervising the GUVS female trainees as they brought the female recipients into the assessment area and Scott did likewise with the male recipients and the Male GUVS team members. The first wave of recipients (15) were to arrive by 9:00 am and the second wave at 10:30 am to make for an orderly flow of recipients that could be easily managed.

 

People started to arrive by 8:30 am. By 9:30 am more than 30 people had come and the waiting area was overflowing. We did not have enough chairs to transport everyone from arriving cars to waiting areas. Someone reported there had been a posting on Facebook that ‘free wheelchairs’ were available to anyone in need. It quickly turned chaotic with people showing up who were not on the appointment list. Some brought in disabled children and had to be turned away because we could not accommodate everyone. Some of the people who came were in such poor condition due to weight, problems with rigidity, children too small for wheelchairs and other medical reasons, that wheelchairs would not be appropriate.

 

In the course of our attempt to meet everyone’s needs, one girl was denied a wheelchair because she could not sit in the erect position and was too rigid to remain in a sitting position. While she and her caregiver were waiting for a family member to return to pick them up, we modified a chair so the girl could rest until their ride arrived. They had migrated to a side entrance and Elder Phillips was so busy working with the flow of people at the main entrance that he could not monitor the waiting family. When their ride arrived, they put the girl in the back seat, folded up the loaner chair, quickly threw it in the trunk of the car and drove off. The OLOP staff said they had contact information of the people and would retrieve the chair.

 

Thanks to the valiant efforts of everyone involved – the GUVS team, the OLOP team and the LDSC team, we managed to assess, fit and educate 29 wheelchair recipients. We were through the process by noon and the GUVS Governing Board and President showed up for lunch and a closing ceremony. The original plan was to do the wheelchair placement until about 1:00 pm, have a light snack for lunch, a closing ceremony, pack up and head for Amman by 3:00 pm, getting us back by around 7:00 pm.

 

Apparently the GUVS Board had expected to be honored with a full mansaf meal and one man expressed his displeasure and disappointment quite verbally to OLOP staff. Since OLOP staff took on this event to meet our needs for air-conditioning, some took offense and the discussion heated up. Finally, everyone settled down, ate, and then we had the closing ceremony. Certificates were handed out, a speech from the GUVS President, comments from the Mayor of Aqaba (a very nice fellow) and the formal event was over. The dignitaries loaded into their vehicles and drove away while the rest of us cleaned up and packed up. We had less materials to transport home but still needed two vans to carry the LDSC team back to Amman. The Cullimores were honored by GUVS with a plaque and a cake for their many years of tireless service to the wheelchair program.

 

One final task was a post-assessment meeting for the LDSC team and Shatha from GUVS, their point person for all organizational needs and planning. While such meetings are essential to fine-tuning the process while events are fresh on our mind, Shatha was exhausted both physically and emotionally after the 3-day training and the fiasco with her Board earlier. She was not in a state to be receptive to evaluation but answered a series of post-training questions from LDSC nonetheless.

 

To give the Cullimores a much needed break from everything, we put them in the Le Royal Hotel for the rest of the week, and brought the Canova’s and Scott Ward to the Center. The Marriott beds in the Center gave the team much needed rest in preparation for the Sabbath and the training schedule for the next week.

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Cake in honor of the 9-years of service by the Cullimores. Don’t ask Kelvyn who took the first piece.

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Weary LDSC team members, l-r, Kelvyn Cullimore, Sandra Phillips, Paul Canova at the end of the day

Reflections:

Overall the GUVS training experience in Aqaba was a success.

  1. The trainees, staff people from GUVS representing their various offices around the country, were enthusiastic and demonstrated an acceptable level of proficiency for the three-day training experience.
  2. Zaid Hayajneh proved to be a competent, capable instructor with language skills and experience as a PT that would qualify him to represent LDSC in any training venue.
  3. Twenty-nine people received proper wheelchairs and left with grateful hearts.
  4. Nine years of experience from the Cullimores provided the organizational and leadership skills required to make such an intense program function as well as it did.

Sister Burton’s, RS General President, Women’s General Conference address, “I was a Stranger” (Ensign, May 2016) was sentinel when considered in context of several addresses that followed in General Conference. Her reference to King Benjamin’s counsel to care for those in need…Comfort those that stand in need of comfort…[and] see that all things are done in wisdom and order (Mosiah 4:27)…none should run faster than they have strength (Mosiah 4;27) were adroitly applied to her underlying theme of the plight of the “refugee.” She then quoted President Eyring (Ensign Nov 2012, 124), “The Holy Ghost is sent to you and to those you care for…”

 

When I read the words of King Benjamin, I strive to liken them unto myself in my time, but sometimes I feel a little “Mormon-centric,” thinking his words were meant just for me or perhaps those of a similar kin and culture. I ask myself, “Do not his words apply to all of God’s children at this time?”

 

In the NA/ME area there are five humanitarian service couples and a proselyting missionary couple and members scattered between a few branches and stakes, a relatively small number compared to the entire population. Those members and missionaries, living worthily of their promised blessings, are entitled to the “Gift of the Holy Ghost” as the privilege of receiving direct revelation in keeping with their calling and responsibilities. This is a core principle in the Gospel and should be highly cherished.

 

The Bible Dictionary distinguishes between the “Gift” and the “Power” of the Holy Ghost (p 704). “The power [of the Holy Ghost] can come upon one before baptism and is the convincing witness that the gospel is true. It gives one a testimony of Jesus Christ and of his work and the work of his servants upon the earth.” (emphasis added) Surely the Lord is sending the Holy Ghost to inspire more people in the Middle East than the few baptized members of his church living here.

 

As we strive to build our own “Relationship of Trust” with the Lord, we should not overlook the opportunity to draw upon the counsel given by Mary R. Durham (Ensign, May 2016, 25), “…to help our children [and others] learn to recognize the Spirit.” As we help others build a relationship of trust with the Lord, so also does our relationship become strengthened.

 

We have been granted great opportunities to apply this principle of recent, which is reported in more detail in this and other reports. When a Catholic Priest, Father Haddad puts his hand over his heart and says, “When I was in Salt Lake attending your conference and going to BYU (He calls it BY-US), I felt something here in my heart.” OR when he says, “I feel inspired to help the LDS Church come out of obscurity in Jordan,” we gently try to help him understand the mission of the Holy Spirit in ways he had not conceived before. When a local restaurant owner tells us, “When you come to my restaurant, there is a special feeling here,” we carefully help him understand what is actually happening. When the Chief Chaplin of the US Navy, Rear Admiral Margaret Kibben tells us, she felt called to become a Chaplin in the military at an early age—she is open to the concept of being led by the Holy Spirit. In 3 Ne19:20-22 we learn that the Holy Ghost will be given to those who are chosen, to those that believe on His words and in Him. We see many good people around us acknowledging the presence of the Holy Ghost (in preparation for baptism and the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost).

 

We have come to appreciate more fully that it is through the Holy Ghost that we are able to build Relationships of Trust with the Lord…a blessing available to all worthy seekers of goodness. Members and non-members may be inspired. We try to respect and pay heed to what they have been led to do.

 

 

Relationship with your companion:

 

According to our assignment, (Eubank Feb. 2 & 7 e-mail) we are working to build relationships with the government, interfaith communities, educational institutions, civic ministering agencies and even within our own branch. We have also taken on a temporary assignment to assist with the Major Wheelchair Initiative during the transition between the other humanitarian couples in Jordan. The past few days we have been hosting Patriarch Chandler who has brought a wonderful spirit into the Center as he pronounced blessings on eight of our district members.

 

Explanations of how the temporal and ecclesiastical arms of the Church function have been informative. With our District membership being so small, we feel the challenge to reach out to gather the Ninety and Nine! Our whole herd is scattered about us. We hope someday our area can qualify to have a full-time Church director here on the ground, or at least a full-time consistent voice in Salt Lake, helping all to expand the Church’s involvement and influence in this vast region.

 

Probably few are functioning in Church callings that are matched to their degrees and training—but our temporal training has given us experience that makes us more effective than we might otherwise have been. Knowledge and experience are two of the few things we take with us into the next life. They are also a component of who we are and what we know, which helps us to help others in this life, as directed by the spirit.

 

Experience and education seem to work in harmony with, not exclusive of the purposes of the Lord. We strive to look through the windows and not into the mirrors around us. Know that we are always striving to better serve the Lord.

 

Working 24/7 with an eternal companion gives many opportunities to learn from each other, to teach each other and to grow together in ways directed by the Lord through our missionary experiences. The challenge of listening to the promptings of the Spirit and following counsel while at the same time using the tools gained in life is a growing experience to be cherished. We have great respect for each other, never feel or share harsh words and feel blessed to be in sync as we approach our assignments each day.

 

 

Relationship with the District/Branch:

We have had the opportunity to host David Chandler, Patriarch for the region, who gave patriarchal blessings to eight members in the District including 4 from the Arabic branch. His presence and demeanor set a spiritual tone for the entire time he was with us. While he did not claim to be a “Seer” the Sunday School lesson for that day was very appropriate, “A Seer [Patriarch]-Becometh a Great Benefit to His Fellow Beings.” The Center provided an ideal environment for the blessings to be given with little distraction from outside noise. The angels must have suppressed the construction workers around which we are surrounded. What an opportunity to build a relationship of trust with the Patriarch as he blessed the members of the District.

 

He sent this message upon his return home:

 

Dear Sister and Elder Phillips.

 

Words cannot express the tremendous gratitude I feel for you.  Your incredible hospitality simply made my trip so nice — Thank you!

 

I so appreciate your kindness, conscientiousness, and service to me and all those who came to receive their blessings from our Father in Heaven.  You helped make the atmosphere very conducive to inviting the Spirit, which was felt by all.

 

The church, the members and those not yet members in your mission are blessed because of your service.  Thank you for serving Him so faithfully, and blessing my life in the process.

 

Gospel regards,

David Chandler

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7 May: District Presidency meeting provides opportunities for information flow between the humanitarian/center couple and the District Presidency at the local level. There is a dynamic relationship between the District and LDS Charities with overlap in both the ecclesiastical as well as the temporal affairs of the church. Matters requiring further discussion and/or decision ascend the hierarchal chain via the ecclesiastical pathway or the humanitarian/temporal affairs pathway. Usually the potential for miscommunication is balanced by the benefit of two points of view. Sparing the details of each presidency meeting, it is crucial that communication remain open and flow freely at all levels, resulting in a relationship of trust and support.

 

One item of interest in the District Presidency is initiating the “Pathway” program in Amman designed to help especially the Arabic members to obtain an American college degree which would immensely enhance employability and demand higher wages. President Penrod tasked the Phillips to explore our options to bring this program to the District.

 

Relationship with Partners (Individuals/ Groups):

 

Religious: 8 May – granting Father Haddad as an Honorary Chaplin in the US Navy.

Father Haddad included Elder and Sister Phillips in an extraordinary dinner party at his home on Saturday. Meeting the first female Navy Chief of Chaplains was a momentous occasion and singular opportunity. Rear Admiral Margaret Kibben was delightful and sincere as she ceremoniously pronounced him an honorary US Navy Chaplin, with the help of Captain Steve Moses.  Congratulations, and well deserved! What a great honor, Father. In addition to his other earned and honorary degrees and titles, we can now call him Chaplin Nabil.

 

We were also privileged to dine with Lieutenant James Ragain of the U.S. Navy. The company and entire evening was intimate, inspiring and delightful. Ekhlass personally prepared so many delicious dishes, we hardly could fit the many choices on our plates. The Haddad home was not only beautiful, but there was an inspiring spirit within its walls.

 

Sandi wrote to Nabil and Ekhlass,

“Your children and grandchildren are a credit to your parenting and were so welcoming at every turn. How lucky for us that even little 2-year old Nabil was a part of the festivities! He is as handsome as he is precocious.

 

“Henry Wooster, Deputy Chief of Mission for the Embassy of the USA was an inspiring table partner as he shared some of his background and experiences here in Jordan. We met him again just two evenings ago at Our Lady of Peace mass and inauguration of the sustainable farm garden supported by Pope Francis.

 

“You have an incredible network of political, religious and royal family associates and friends who revere your experience and influence. It seems that every event we attend you are chosen to be the keynote speaker from among hundreds, if not thousands, of attendees. What a privilege it has been to work with you over the winter months in distributing food, blankets and heaters to the weary and needy.

 

“Thank you for always supporting LDSC and praising us so easily and generously in front of your many Catholic, Muslim and protestant associates.

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10 May: We were invited to return to the home of Father Haddad following his Navy honor. He was regaining his strength from his 3-week illness and hospitalization (probably Zika Virus from a mosquito bite) and more enthused about how he could assist LDSC in advancing the recognition of the LDS Church for the good they are doing in Jordan. The visit was a pleasant and relaxed meeting (no 2-year-old Nabil Jr present) and it was an opportunity to talk in visionary terms and strategic planning. He continues to amaze us with his dedication to a mission-driven effort to help bring the LDS Church out of obscurity. We told him our life would be consumed for the next two weeks while we attended to our wheelchair responsibilities but would prayerfully consider ideas he presented and meet with him again to continue to plan for the future.

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Community:

 

12 May: Paid a visit to Raad Kilani to give a gift to their new daughter Joury. Lubna’s parents were there and were very pleased that some foreigners would make a hospitality visit to see their new granddaughter. We have become very close friends with the Kilani’s as he continues to serve LDSC as legal counsel in Jordan.

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Educational:

 

9 Mar: American University of Madaba (AUM) Visit with faculty member Daniel Blomberg, and Dean Fayez Haddad, Dean of the Business School.

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Figure 2016-5-9 (l to r) Asst Professor Daniel Blomberg, Elder Phillips, President Numayr’s Executive Assistant, and Dean Haddad

 

12 May: Jordan Educational Imitative – As a follow-up to our meeting with Feda Gharaibeh, Director, Humanitarian Relief Coordination Unit, MOPIC, we spent a delightful hour visiting with Nerine Nebulsi, CEO of the Jordan Educational Initiative at their offices in west Amman. Our objective was to explore ways in which Elder and Sister Phillips could be of assistance to the objectives of the initiative.

The program is focused on K thru 12 public school education. Their objective is to integrate digital technology into the learning environment to augment and accelerate the learning process. There is a team of 18 working under her direction. They obviously cannot reach all public schools so they have selected a few to experiment with different approaches of implementation in a “pilot study” format. The measured outcomes will help determine future direction.

 

We are not sure how we could tie LDSC programs into what they are doing but will continue to explore options that may be of interest to her. The obvious need is for greater financial support but we did not pursue that discussion until we had more time to explore what might be sustainable from an LDSC perspective.

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Figure 2016-5-12 Elder Phillips in conversation with Nerine Nabulsi of the Jordan Educational Imitative.

Charitable Organization: Our Lady of Peace in Amman 12 May: We received an invitation from Sahan Madanat, Director of Our Lady of Peace, to attend the dedication of their Peace Garden by Patriarch Fouad Twal.

 

The Vatican donated $150,000 to Caritas Jordan to launch the project. The project will provide 15 Iraqi refugees with full-time work cultivating, producing and selling vegetables and oil. Another 200 Iraqi refugees will be given training in carpentry, agriculture and the food industry and an additional 500 will be given seasonal employment. We had the opportunity to meet Wael Suleiman, Director of Caritas Jordan.

 

The ceremonial Mass preceding the dedication was presided over by Latin Patriarch of Jerusalem Fouad Twal and Apostolic Nuncio to Jordan Archbishop Alberto Ortega Martin. This was a rather large gathering of notables and locals. When we arrived we were recognized and ushered into seating reserved for LDSC. This was a great honor and deep gesture of respect for our church, as hundreds of parishioners had standing room only. When the dedicatory speeches were over we were invited to join the procession of leaders out to the unveiling of the monument in the Garden. There was some time to interact and shake hands with many we have had previous contact.

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Figure 2016-5-12 Our Lady of Peace Garden Dedication

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Figure 2016-5-2 Zaid & Elder Phillips reviewing a professional question

Elder Phillips continues to build a relationship with Zaid as they review and ponder clinical scenarios that appeal to their common backgrounds. We continue to work with Elissa to get our proposal for wheelchairs for the Royal Hospital approved. This is one way LDS Charities can show appreciation to Zaid for his commitment to give of his time and talents to move the wheelchair training program forward at a reduced expense to LDSC.

 

 

9 May: In our continuing efforts to give support to Michael Thomas and his efforts to bring medical supplies into Jordan in November when his team of 25 Agricultural leaders come for a tour and learning, we made a trip to Madaba to find out why there had been no response to the e-mails he had sent to Drs. Al Shloul & Karadsheh, contacts he gained by conversing with Brent Strong. We initially searched out the eye-clinic where the retinopathy project had been conducted but when we found the clinic neither of the two Drs. were there. We were then directed to the Nadim Hospital to meet Dr. Karadsheh.

 

She is now the Director of the Hospital and Dr. Shloul has been transferred to Zarka…a constant challenge to building lasting relationships. The hospital has 120 beds and 20 emergency room beds. The facility is a full service hospital with all the standard medical specialties, a renal dialysis center, women’s clinic and a physical therapy department. This hospital was also part of the RHAS/LDSC retinal neuropathy study along with the ophthalmology previously mentioned. The Tolley’s had also worked with the hospital on one of their women’s health initiatives. So there has been plenty of LDSC footprints at the hospital but no coordination of efforts between humanitarian couples to date.

 

Dr. Karadsheh worked in the hospital out-patient clinic in 1996 then went to Russia in 1983 to study medicine (using English texts).

 

There was some discussion with Dr. Karadsheh and her Chief of the Medical Staff regarding what supplies and equipment would be best to bring and how it would be used. She has prepared a list to be sent to Michael Thomas.

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Figure 2016-5-9 Dr. Karadsheh, Director of Nadim Hospital in Madaba, with Dr. Phillips

Relationship with the NA/ME Desk:

 

Relationship with a Major Initiative – Wheelchair Training Project

 

11 May: The Cullimore’s arrived at the Ammon Airport to begin the Wheelchair Training program that will continue to the 23rd of May. There will be more on this experience in the following reports.

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Figure 2016-5-11 Cullimores arrive in Amman, looking completely rested and happy, after 19 hours of traveling…amazing!

 

12 May: The training process involves a number of meetings to include a pre-training meeting to review what will actually take place in the training meetings. On the morning of the 12th we had the pre-training meeting with GUVS. We were greeted by their governing board and their president for introductions and discussion. In our brief 45-minute session, their president took seven phone calls and smoked six cigarettes.

 

After the preliminaries and the board dismissed themselves, we got down to a step-by-step discussion about what was going to occur in the actual training session to be held in Aqaba. Shatha Qteshat and Maysoon, our primary contact people with GUVS, are two very sweet and hardworking people who appear to hold the wheelchair program together at GUVS. There is a language challenge, however, so Max Abeda was brought in has a translator for LDSC.

 

The only misunderstanding that came out of the pre-training discussion was that the GUVS people were not planning to begin the first session in Aqaba until mid-afternoon on Monday. The actual plan was to use Monday morning and early afternoon to construct the wheelchairs and to allow trainees the experience of the assembly process. In fact, we had prepared an extensive tool kit for each participant to take home with them for future assembly events.

 

To remedy the situation, Shatha contacted those coming to Aqaba to see how many could come earlier, but most transportation arrangements were already set. We learned after arriving in Aqaba that the venue for our training session was already booked until mid-afternoon with another client so we could not start the assembly process any sooner even if people did arrive earlier. Flexibility and adaptations allowed us to remedy the situation.

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Figure 2016-5-12 GUVS pre-training mtg. l-r: GUVS President, Vice President, Elder Cullimore, Max the translator

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Figure 2016-5-12 GUVS pre-training mtg. (l-r) Zaid, Maysoon, Shatha

Neighborhood Activity: Road construction continues to make access to the Center challenging if not impossible at times. The building next door continues to take form but in its early stages of gestation it is hard to determine gender and stature.

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Figure 2016-5-9 Road construction…laying a road base for eventual paving.

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Figure 2016-5-10 Building next door

 

Sister Phillips and I have braved the Californian earthquakes and fires that would threaten our sweet home, and we have survived Idaho’s bitter storms of cold but we had yet to experience the natural perils of Jordan until now. We had made plans to make a trip to the south of the country in Aquba, in hopes continue to build public relations. Within a matter of seconds we found ourselves consumed by a whirlwind of dust. Roads immediately closed and accidents seemed to be materializing along the highway like wildfire. The visibility was limited to no more that a few feet in front of us and the stop and go traffic caused vehicles to vanish any time the cars were pressed to move a few feet forward. It ended up being a blessing in disguise for us as we were able to divert to Madaba to visit our dear friend Osama to renew relations established by our predecessors. As usual, he was very gracious and excited to see friends from America.

The Khamsini phenomenon, that affects North Africa, the Arabian peninsula and the Levant, is a dusty, hot, cyclonic-type wind originating in the Atlas Mountains (in Morocco and North Algeria).

Its name “Khamsini” was derived from the Arabic word khamseen, meaning 50, because it occurs over 50 days between March and early May and affects the region on average once a week during the 50-day period.

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In addition with our visit to see Osama we were able come in contact with princess Majda Raad and her grandson. She has been a philanthropist for Al Hussien Society, supplying us with sewing tools and materials. She loves working with LDS charities and several times requested to have additional meetings with us in the future.

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Al Hussien society is a place that will touch you heart the moment you walk through their rustic doors. One particular group I have grown close to is the KENZ sewing shop. KENZ hosts local less-abled people employed by AHS to make items to be sold for revenue to support AHS needs. LDSC provided the sewing machines for this shop. We have engaged them in the production of materials for our Major Wheelchair Initiative. All of them take so much pride in their work and are such sweet spirits. Wafa, the talented director of KENZ is modeling some of the hats made by the individuals apart of the program. Seeing this tender program grow is heartwarming.

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On March 9th Father Kildani invited us to a special luncheon he hosted for the workers he has employed to construct their new cathedral and his LDSC supported the water reclamation project. We also saw the beautiful cathedral he is building, pictured below.

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This is Father Butros. He actually has a daughter attending BYU! 🙂

We are proud to announce that the Al Hussein Society sewing center has gained the respect within the community as having some of the highest quality seamstresses, they are sewing tote bags and tool kits for our wheelchair training project. We are supporting job creation for wonderful people who are also helping us.

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One of the most rewarding moments of our week for Sister Phillips and I was when we had the opportunity to be a guest at a conference sponsored by AHS to introduce several key groups to the 2016 Arabia CSR Network Awards Program. We were privileged to accommodate Princess Majda Raad at the ceremony. She is a Royal sponsor of AHS and sits as the honorary chair of their Board of Directors. She was a delight to associate with and was extremely appreciative of all the work LDS Charities had done within the country.